Roman's First Food

After trying to decide when to start Roman on solids we did it today. I wanted to feed him avocado but couldn't find the time to get out and get a couple. So, we went with oatmeal cereal. (I had considered just skipping the cereal all together but without the avocado I decided to just go with the cereal) I mixed with some formula because I didn't want to waste ounces of (unfrozen) breast milk for a few ounces. 

Not sure if it was the formula, oatmeal or both but this was the reaction Roman gave us: 

Here's to trying again! 

My Three Boys!

Written a few days within the ultrasound. This week we learned who are next family member is going to be. I didn't realize I was going into the anatomy ultrasound when I went in, but she had the opening and since I was already scheduled for the following week we decided to do it then. Here's a letter to my third SON!

Dear Baby Boy,

We saw you on Tuesday. I kind of thought that doing this all a third time would be old hat. However, I don't know if it was the spotting and the concern in my doctor's voice on the phone or just the pure awe of how God is piecing you together, it felt like the first time all over again. The ultrasound tech, Jan, put the wand on my belly and you popped up on the big screen. Tears immediately rimmed my eyes. You were there. I could see you and though my heart has been growing in love for you since even before you were in my belly I'm pretty sure my heart grew three sizes that second. Normally, in the ultrasound I turn my head so we don't see anything accidentally indicating gender. This time I watched. I thought I perhaps saw something that indicated boy but I wasn't sure. I felt myself tearing up more. It wasn't tearing up out of disappointment of having another boy it was pure excitement Baby Boy!

You were so cooperative and yet so wiggly. The doctor and Jan both said that they had gotten great shots of everything they needed to and you were healthy and my body was healthy. Then, it was on to the moment. Jan didn't say aloud what you were because Ty was with us and we didn't want him to know before JJ. She went searching and it was confirmed. You are a BOY! The feeling that went over me in the confirmation of what I thought I had seen was complete relief. We love our boys. I love the way your brothers look up to your dad and want to be like him. He's such a great role model for you boys. You have lots of other role models in your grandpas and uncles. I love the way your brothers love on me and look out for me- each in their own unique way. I also love how they love you so much. They will rub my belly, try to feel you and give you kisses. Amazing bond you three already have!

So, Baby Boy, we can't wait to see you, but please not until October. We think that pretty soon you will have a name. We pray during our family prayers for you to be healthy and talk about you all the time. Keep on growing- we will see you soon!

Love,
Mommy

I have to start blogging again...

So, I've decided I need to blog again. It may not be all interesting but I find that I miss out and forget things as life slides by. I find myself going back and looking at the old blog, especially during pregnancy.

At 18 weeks, I had an "emergency ultrasound." Everything was fine- just like I thought it would be, but the doctor wanted me to come in and make sure. We were scheduled for our "20 week" ultrasound the following Monday. (this was the previous Tuesday) Once we were there the ultrasound tech asked if we just wanted to go ahead and do the big ultrasound. Suddenly, we realized that we were finding out if I was carrying a son or daughter!

Ty sat patiently through the whole ultrasound. With JJ and Ty we didn't find out their genders at the ultrasound so this was all new to us. Normally, as she put the wand on my belly we would have turned away but this time it didn't matter if we saw anything. She put the wand on my belly and I thought I saw something but kept my mouth shut when she didn't say anything.

The whole ultrasound went wonderfully, which shocked me as the doctor is always commenting on how active the baby was and how the baby runs from the doppler with it's heart rate near 170-180. If you look closely at the picture above you can see the baby is sucking his thumb and has his foot resting on my side. He had tried so hard during the whole ultrasound to get that thumb in his mouth. Soon after this moment he lost his thumb and tried to get it back, but hit himself in the head, startling himself.

Finally, it was time to find out the gender. We didn't want Ty to find out since JJ wasn't finding out then too so she simply placed the wand on the right place on the baby and typed the words "BOY!!!!!" I had seen what I thought I had at the beginning. While I thought there may be slight disappointment on my part the feeling that came over me was relief. We have all of our boy stuff and we know how to do boys. I love my boys. I love the way they love me. I was excited that he was going to have great male role models in his life just by watching his own family members.

When Hubby got home and my parents and sister and niece and her boyfriend all came over, we went outside and gave the boys a water gun filled with water. By squirting the water gun on their BIG BROTHER shirts they would find out the gender. If the water was pink= girl and if it was blue=boy.

It surprised the family that it was a boy! (Note to anybody who does this. Don't get distracted by having just announced and let your kids run crazy with the guns squirting each other. By the end Ty was the beginning of a smurf- we had to take off the food coloring with nail polish remover to get it to fade!)

 This is the day of the ultrasound.

 After a quick dinner we headed off to church where Carrie and Diana were having a VBS music practice to get them in for the fun. (Remember we didn't know we were having our ultrasound that day and I couldn't wait to tell people so yes- it had to happen that day!) We gave them a balloon filled with "It's a Boy!" confetti. They popped the balloon and watched the confetti. Joke was on me when the irradescent pieces were showing up as pink. They figured it out though!

 So, there's the story of finding out about Boy #3! A fun day that is going to go down in our family history. :)

AND...some of the old wives tales pointed at girl and some at boy.

(and stay tuned- once we have this little guy, who is unnamed, we will figure out if we liked knowing the gender or not knowing the gender.)

So, there

Easter

 I guess I took a break from blogging? Then, I realized I took a break from uploading pics to Facebook. Fail. And fail again.

So, I'll catch you up on life this year. :)

Easter was a lot of fun! JJ understood last year about why we celebrate Easter. However, this year he has learned even more on Sunday mornings and Wednesday nights that he could verbalize even more. It was so neat to watch his tender heart. Yes. Tender. Remember when I blog about my strong-willed boy? Guess who has the most tender heart and is always worried about people and their feelings, etc? Yes. Oh how God has formed him to be such a sweet little boy. He really hated that Jesus died on the cross for us because we did wrong things. He was excited Easter that He arose! He understood and it was such a neat time of hearing him talk about it that day.

At bedtime prayer we ask the boys to name something they are thankful for that day and one thing that they want to pray for. (i.e. something they want God to help them with or something they want, etc.) For about the month before Easter Ty began thanking God that "Jesus died on cross for our sins." Although I know some of it is a repetition for him I believe that in him saying this and us discussing this almost every night he realized a little more of what Easter was about. His favorite song right now is "I'll Fly Away." It's a song for VBS this year and even though we haven't listened to it in awhile I can often hear him singing it in the back while I'm listening to the radio. (how kids keep a totally separate tune while another is going is beyond me!)

Thank you, Lord, for dying for us. Thank you for these kids who remind us daily of why we will get to Heaven one day.

 Oh and yes- the day before we were busy dying those Easter eggs. Such fun! (okay, maybe it's not my very favorite thing to do and I'm forever grateful that Hubby steps right in and takes care of it for me while I hide behind my camera. ;)

Happy 6th Birthday, JJ!

Dear JJ, 

One week ago you turned six. You woke me so excited and said, "I AM SIX NOW!" As excited as you were I was a little sad that the big day had come. Your fifth year was a big year for you. You loved most every event in your life this past year. I knew the day would come when you would be six but I hoped maybe five could last a little longer.

We have even seen little seeds that Jesus has planted in you that have been sprouting. The latest being when you asked to pray for some specific favorite people out of the blue during our bedtime prayers. We hadn't seen the people in awhile but they were on your mind. That evening I texted the person and let them know that you had wanted to pray for them. Turns out they needed the prayer that evening. It had been a long, crazy weekend for them and they needed those extra prayers. I believe that God laid them on your heart for that moment. He knew that they needed that. One of your favorite things to pray for now is a baby sister. You don't care how you get one, but you want one!

Then, you had your graduation from preschool. As much as you loved preschool we knew it was time for you to move on. You were ready. Your teacher even talked at your conferences at how well you had improved through the year. She had seen so much growth in you. All of this made you ready for Kindergarten and you couldn't wait for that day to come! 

You enjoyed our family vacation to Destin. You loved running into the cold waves and shrieking your JJ shriek. You loved flying kites. Everything was fun! You started Sunny Start soon after we got back from vacation and you loved it! You loved Ms. Dean and never complained about going. In the middle of Sunny Start we went on a road trip with Grandma to New Mexico. Once again- you had so much fun! You boys were country travelers! 

Finally the big day came! You were off to Kindergarten! You were so big as we all walked to school. You walked in your room and sat down in your chair and soon we were gone. There were some tears on the part of me but you sat so bravely as the rest of the parents said good-bye to their kindergarteners. You had some adjusting to your teacher, as she's not the warm, fuzzy kindergarten teacher, but you really love going to Miss E's classroom. She knows how to challenge your little mind and expects a lot out of you. You are on List 14 out of 15 lists for sight words right now. You only needed to do three. We are so proud of you! I love holding your hand on the way home from school when we walk. Suddenly, it feels bigger and yet you will still hold my hand! I know the days are numbered where you will allow me to do that so I really cherish those moments for now. 

Your physical growth has been fun to watch, too! Although you are 50%, you are one of the smallest in your class. You haven't seemed to notice. However, when you stand by me I feel like your so much bigger than you should be. You also lost four teeth this year! The first came in October. Then, you lost your next a month later. The next a day later you lost another tooth. (at school- you were quite the talk of Kindergarten lunch going to the nurse when you lost your tooth so I hear. ;) Then, the following day you lost your fourth. The tooth fair was so very busy!

Some of your favorite things these days include Star Wars. I'm sure you like other things but Star Wars have triumphed all lately! You had a Star Wars birthday party. You wanted Star Wars toys for your birthday. You have watched Star Wars. Played the video game with Daddy. You just love them! 

JJ- you have grown up so much! We had a few hard times when you were younger, but you have come out of those years with such growth! You have become my little man. You care for others. You love your brother and always include him in what you are doing. (including making sure Grandma got him something when you picked our your birthday toys since he had been such good boy!) You want to do the right thing and have such a guilty conscience when you don't. I am honored to call you my son! 

Love you,

Mommy

2011 Year in Review

2011 proved to a blessing of a year for our family! The year before had been a great one, but 2011 was our settling year. We settled into our life with a few changes, but change is always going to be there so we consider it normal. :)

**sadly I have no pictures from the beginning of the year due to our hard drive dying last year**
January
January began the change that has probably been the biggest for Hubby. He started his new job. The last three months of 2010 had been crazy with a few job interviews (not counting the handful he had that summer) He ended up with two offers on the table. We were blessed. This job has been an incredible blessing.

February
Our big boy turned FIVE. A whole hand. How did that happen? He had first official big party with his friends. He was pretty pumped to turn five because he knew Kindergarten was starting soon.

March
Hmmm...apparently I don't remember well. I have NO idea what happened in March last year. ;)

April
We went on the Children's Retreat at church. The boys had a ton of fun. We got a taste for what it would be like to go to camp for longer in the summer.

We also celebrated Easter, which held a special meaning for our big boy this year. He understood what Easter meant. You could see the Holy Spirit grabbing his little heart and it was a something new we were praising God for!

May
JJ graduated from preschool. He loved his year at preschool and we loved the preschool, too! So much in fact that Ty began as a three year old and I committed to serving as president of the preschool board.

A few days later we headed out on our first official family vacation to Destin, FL. We had so much fun! The boys loved the beach, though it was a little chilly, as they were hitting record lows. The boys did so well traveling. (made me realize we could travel in June with Diana to NM)

During our trip we celebrated 10 years of marriage! Not bad, eh? We still haven't taken our 10 year anniversary trip or a weekend away, but one day we will. For now, I just enjoy being with my husband and our boys. We're in a sweet time of life.





June
JJ began his summer Kindergarten program, which he loved! It was just a half a day for five weeks. He was so excited to go to school and see his teacher. He enjoyed meeting other friends. It turned out to be a great experience for him.

The beginning of June was devoted to VBS. We loved Pandamania and are still listening to the VBS songs. **apparently my computer deleted my VBS pictures. Weird.**

In the middle of June Diana, the boys and I loaded up in our van and headed to New Mexico to move Jacob and Amber (who had been there since January) back. We were gone a week. We had a blast! While we were gone, Hubby and his dad worked on the kitchen. It was a win-win for everybody! (though probably more of the win on our side of things, but the work was able to get done faster without little helpers. ;) It also cut down on the amount of stress I would have felt being here. HA!

July
Ty celebrated his third birthday. Suddenly, there were no "babies" in our house. Life was noticeably easier and became easier with every month.

August
We all went to camp. Hubby was a counselor in the little boys cabin, where JJ was! We had an official camper! I was in the older girls cabin and Ty stayed with me. We had such a fun time at camp that week! It was fun to get to know the girls and my co-counselors.

We had a few days before JJ started KINDERGARTEN! oh my! Those first few days were the longest of my life. My little boy was so excited that first day. The second day he had a tummy ache and I ended up with a migraine. By the end of the week he was back to loving it.

We also ordered our kitchen cabinets. I know this may not feel newsworthy but after having lived with our kitchen for four years we were so stinkin' excited!










September
Labor Day weekend was one of shopping for kitchen stuff, while the boys spent two nights at Lake Of the Ozarks with Hubby's family. They had so much fun but two nights was the longest I had ever been away from them. They did wonderful and so did we! :) We met up on Sunday and enjoyed a night at the house with everybody.

The day after Labor Day Ty started preschool. He is in the three year old class on Tuesday and Thursday. He cried the first two days, but since then he has done great! (yet still runs out of the classroom telling me "I no cry today, Mom!")
The second Tuesday of the month I began volunteering in JJ's classroom while Ty was at preschool. It has been a rewarding opportunity. I have helped the teachers with whatever they need and gotten to know them. I have helped his little friends with their ABCs and sounds.

September may have been our busiest month coupled with the new kitchen renovation!! Wahoo! Love my new kitchen! Hubby and his dad did a great job on it! I have never been so thankful for a handy hubby and father-in-law...oh wait- yes I was last year when they finished off our basement! :)

I was second shooter for preschool pictures. I have never been so exhausted from my side job as a photographer as I was those two days. 46 preschoolers on two different backdrops.

October
Life slowed doooown! We enjoyed fall activities with beautiful weather. We went pumpkin picking, to the pumping patch and then began cheering on our Cardinals as they won the World Series! Such a fun family month!

We also had two field trips back to back. JJ's class went to The Magic House and Ty's class went to the pumpkin patch!

During a break from school he even lost his first tooth!

November
We had a fun time gearing up for the holidays. The boys were already getting into the Christmas season at the beginning of the month.

Ty also began speech! So happy for my little guy that pretty soon we'll be able to understand him better! He has so much to say and we're happy that he is pretty easy going when you ask him to repeat himself or just don't really know what he is saying. (I'm sure I've said yes a few times when I shouldn't have!) He marched right back with his speech therapist and has enjoyed going.

JJ not only lost his second and third tooth but also his fourth- three days in a row for the Tooth Fairy at our house!

Thanksgiving was fun- JJ was excited he was off for FIVE whole days!

December
December was a fun month! The boys were into everything we did! They were so excited!

Ty FINALLY decided to pee on the potty on Christmas Eve (when we celebrate our little family of 4's Christmas) From then on he has been in big boy pants! Wahoo! (and you better believe that this made our list. We have been buying diapers for 5yrs and almost 10 months! (He's still in pull-ups at night but normally wakes up dry!

In the middle of the hustle and bustle I asked JJ why we celebrate Christmas. His answer, "We celebrate it because of love." (we had just finished a book about Christmas that made no mention of the TRUE meaning of Christmas.) Before I could ask him anything else he went on. "We actually celebrate it because Jesus was born. Jesus was born so that he could die for our sins." It made our Christmas season even brighter that our son truly understood Christmas!

We had a truly fun Christmas season! Celebrating Christmas five times!

So, what does 2012 hold?

We can't wait to see!

Choo-Choo!

 One thing we love about Lowe's is their FREE kid workshops! They are supposed to be for kids ages 2nd grade-5th grade but they have always let us do them. This month their workshop was to make a train. It went three weeks in a row and they made a caboose, coal car (toy car for Christmas) and an engine.

The first week we went we weren't able to stay and put them together and Hubby wanted them to have a hammer their size to work with. We didn't find a hammer their size until we found these tool sets. They were half off and had real tools in them. Anybody need some little construction workers? They work for chocolate chip cookies. :)

 The boys aren't used to me using my external flash on my camera...can you tell?

 This made me literally LOL.